Grow up and move on, for goodness sake!

Seriously.  I don't understand people who dwell too much on their own sufferings and feel that their lives are the only ones with so many challenges and full of misery.

Is it just me?  Maybe I'm too cynical?  Or maybe I just don't understand the concept of empathy.  Yes, maybe that's it.  I've always been lousy at being sympathetic and giving empathy to people who are down in the dumps.  But then, bitch has always been my middle name, and I just don't get people who are so full of self-pity, thinking that they try so hard to make others happy but that God never gives THEM happiness.

Helllooo...  Wake up, and look around you.  There are bigger things in life than YOU.  There are bigger problems out there than what YOU are going through.  Jangan nak mengarut kata Tuhan tak sayang kat kau.  If you don't have or can't find happiness, it's because kau tak pernah bersyukur dengan apa yang kau ada.  Come on, you want to talk to me about sacrifices?  What sacrifices did you make?  Are your sacrifices, sacrifices at all?  What about those around you who have in their entire life, made sacrifices for you?  Kau nampak pengorbanan yang kau buat je, tak pernah nak nampak pengorbanan yang orang lain buat.  Don't talk about yourself or your friends.  Talk about your family and those dearest to you.  Usia muda, tapi dah ngarut yang bukan-bukan.

Sudahlah, malas nak berleter dengan orang yang tak reti nak bersyukur dengan apa yang dia ada.  Buat sakit hati je.

Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku, Kau yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang, kuatkanlah iman, hati dan semangat yang tersayang dalam hidupku agar sentiasa ingat kepadaMu dan sentiasa mohon petunjuk ke jalan yang diredhaikuMu.

PS:
No matter what I say, I will always love you unconditionally.  And I'm sorry if my words hurt in any way.  But please, grow up.  Life is not just about you.  Ingat-ingatlah mereka yang patut diingat, dan bukannya pada mereka yang tak layak untuk diingat.

Life is full of ups and downs.  Make the ups count more than the downs.  Life is short.  Especially for those who have been here before you.  Cherish the moments you had, have and will have with them.  Jangan sampai menyesal when they are gone and that you wish you could have done more for them. Don't wait for tomorrow, next week, next month or next year.  You don't know how much time you have left with them. Wake up and let them know you love them before it's too late.

Stop being such a selfish brat.